Your whole curious straight guy experience is waiting to blossom as soon as someone initiates something. I mean, reading your story, your guy was way more forward than the guy in my past to the point that its not even cryptic. I had a straight dude that I met at work randomly start texting me lol. As an adult, this is very different and not that difficult to navigate. We were both young (20-21), so he was nervous and I was nervous. I had a straight friend who made a lot of suggestive comments to me, comments that left me thinking, ".wait, what?" At some point, I flat out engaged with them, which threw them off, and one thing led to another, and for a while, I was his blow job/experimenting buddy.īut I'm not gonna lie, it wasn't a comfortable conversation. The best advice I can give, as someone who was in this exact situation is to simply engage with their banter, keep it going so they either explain themselves or open up to what they really want.
When him and I hugged to say goodbye he grabbed my ass and told me that it feels like an apple (BIGGEST COMPLIMENT) but maybe he just feels comfortable around me? Or does he just want me to know he would not be weirded out if I had a crush on him and does he maybe like me? I told him I find him pretty. We have to keep in mind that he gets touchy with his bros but as I mentioned he knows I‘m gay.Īnd when him and I went out to smoke a cig he said that he liked the idea of a gay guy having a crush on him because it would boost his ego (not exactly like this but kind of like of this) so is it possible that he wants me to be attracted to him?
So while he checked my ear he started smelling on my face and said “you smell good“ and only stopped After like 3-4 seconds. Maybe it was the internalized homophobia? My friends, him and I talked about bisexuality and he said that he was curious but only liked black men (I know weird) and more on an emotional level. While we were playing a game on my iPad he asked me “is that supposed to be a pick up line“ and I replied “I would never try to hit on you“ and he didn‘t seem unbothered by my rejection but I want him to think that I don‘t find him attractive so he doesn‘t get weirded out.
I‘ve hung up with him a couple times (not alone though). I had three girlfriends over and him but he was there so he could pierce our ear holes. So there is this friend and he knows that I am gay. So… I know that you guys will think that he is into me but hear (…read) me out.